OFFICIAL SAVANA RAE: TO SHOW LOVE OR NOT TO SHOW LOVE THAT IS THE QUESTION

TO SHOW LOVE OR NOT TO SHOW LOVE THAT IS THE QUESTION

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Valentine's day has just passed and I find it's one of those days designed to show you love someone. 

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Yes, there is much debate on celebrating love on a single day and not having to confine it to that particular day.
  The fact is that it's a chance for all of us to make that effort to show our appreciation for those we love.

Realistically we should mutually appreciate one another on a daily basis. This is a central pillar to a healthy relationship. 

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Love is the most beautiful component in life, it's that extra factor which gives you inner peace. This can be applied to all relationships, whether it's the love of self, family or partners.

If you do struggle with self love I have come up with a short guide on how to increase it.
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Everyone is entitled to their opinions in regards to their love or hate for Valentine's Day.

I personally have shown to nor like or be bothered if this day was celebrated, when really this feeling was brought on by that fear that the other person would not want to bother to take the time to do something for me. For years I have not had any celebration on that day to the point I just gave up when it came to it.

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I have always been the giver and the one who goes out of my way to make the efforts especially on special occasions.

There are some people who will just tell you they don't celebrate occasions such as birthdays or valentine's day. This will either be because of religious or personal choices they have made.

Unreciprocated efforts can build up resentment throughout time. 


Imagine if you are the only one going out of your way to show your care through ACTIONS.
What do you think is going to happen if it's always ONE WAY?

You will simply feel UNAPPRECIATED and DEMOTIVATED within your relationship.


All my experience has given me the opportunity to question why would someone not want to show you they want to make the effort to make you feel cared for??????????????


I am not talking about expecting diamonds but even the simplest effort goes a long way.
It shows you that the person actually wanted to make an effort FOR YOU.
A person shouldn't even have to ask.

This does not apply to everyone, there are unconventional couples which think differently.

I am the typical girl who dreams of a fairytale love. I was blessed enough to be brought up in a household were my parents were soul mates. Giving me a healthy look on love and setting the expectations bar very high.

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Then again is it set high?????


There are core values that should be present in our relationships.


RESPECT
LOYALTY
MUTUAL APPRECIATION


I find that as Millennials we have been very unlucky in the sense that most people have different priorities other than these values. I've noticed that fickle things drive people nowadays, like for example popularity based on follower count, going to clubs or even cheating. 

Reality has it that many of us are abused in our relationships on a daily basis. Some of us put up with it because everyone makes mistakes and to give them a chance. However, others stay because they are too scared to leave.

I can't stress how important it is to be in a healthy relationship. This will only make you grow in most sectors of your life.


Toxic relationships leave you feeling empty, broken and affect how you behave with those around you.
THEY ARE CALLED TOXIC FOR A GOOD REASON.

I never understood the phrase LOVE YOURSELF but now I fully comprehend it.
If you love yourself you will only accept the best for yourself and will not be in situations that hurt your heart. We all deserve to be loved and we all deserve the best.

Showing love is very important as actions will always be more meaningful than words. I could promise anyone the world but if my actions don't match those words, do my words have ANY VALUE?

Can you see why showing love is extremely important and reciprocating it is even more. 


I am all for SHOWING LOVE. 

Whoever is not may be choosing not to because they either guard their heart or they just don't love that SPECIFIC person.

Life is too short to keep playing games. You never know when it's the last time you will see a particular person. Build happy memories and appreciate on another because YOU NEVER KNOW what life may throw at you.

CHOSE TO SHOW LOVE I AM SURE YOU WILL NOT REGRET IT.



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